You are only what you are in relation to another thing that is not.
It is important to bless every situation and every person you meet because with the perspective of what you live is that you build who you really are, either by similarity or by opposition.
Although you are a unique being, you share an energetic space with others, whether you like it or not. What you do influences others and what others do influences you in one way or another.
If you think about it a little more, you will realize that energetically we are one, a single energy divided into different densities and vibrations.
So from everything you see and live you build your true self. Nothing and nobody appears in your life without a specific reason. You just have to distance yourself and observe yourself to know who you are and who you will be in relation to what you are experiencing.
You do not need to judge yourself or others, but it is important to observe yourself without attachments, without fear, only with the honesty of recognizing yourself so that you can be and not act a character that is not yours, who is not your true being.
Search deep inside of you, every time something from your outside affects you and brings out the best in you every moment of life, even if it seems difficult to do when you succeed you will discover your own paradise.